Вопрос № 1029258 - Английский язык

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Support
1. We expect friends to support us. There are many ways to show support. Common to the various types of support is the relationship message, «I care about you». Often, we support friends by listening to their problems. The more mindfully we listen, the more support we provide. How we respond also shows support. For example, it’s supportive to offer to help a friend with a problem or to talk through options. Another way we support friends is by letting them know they’re not alone. When we say, «I’ve felt that way, too» or «I’ve had the same problem», we signal that we understand their feelings. Having the grace to accept friends when they err or hurt us is also a way to show support and validate their worth (Burleson, 1984).
2. Another important form of support is study, young adults said the essence of real friendship was «being there for each other» (Secklin, 1991). Increasingly, people rely on friends for support online – being there for them emotionally when they can’t be there physically (Baym, 2002; Carl, 2006). Women and men tend to differ somewhat in how they support friends. Because feminine socialization emphasizes personal communication, women generally provide more verbal emotional support than men do (Becker, 1987; Johnson, 2000; Monsour, 2006). They are likely to talk in detail about feelings, dimensions of emotional issues, and fears that accompany distress. By talking in depth about emotional troubles, women help one another identify and vent feelings and work out problems.
3. Men often provide support to friends through «covert intimacy», a term Swain (1989) coined to describe the indirect ways men support one another. Instead of an intimate hug, men are more likely to clasp a shoulder or playfully punch an arm. Instead of engaging in direct and sustained emotional talk, men tend to communicate support more instrumentally. This could mean giving advice on how to solve a problem, or offering assistance, such as a loan or transportation. Finally, men are more likely than women to support friends by coming up with diversions (Cancian, 1987; Walker, 2004). If you can’t make a problem any better, at least you can take a friend’s mind off it. «Let’s go throw a ball around» provides a diversion.
4. Culture also influences orientations toward friendship. In a study of Japanese and American friendships, Dean Barnlund (1989) found that both groups preferred friends who were similar to them in age and ethnic heritage. Yet Japanese respondents said togetherness, trust, and warmth were the most important qualities in friendship, whereas Americans listed understanding, respect, and sincerity as the top qualities. The differences in rankings reflect distinctions between Japanese and American culture. Interpersonal harmony and collective orientation are central values in Japan, whereas American culture emphasizes individuality, candor, and respect.
(Julia T. Wood : Interpersonal Communication: Everyday Encounters / Julia T. Wood. – The USA : Wadsworth, Cengage Learning, 2010. – P.257).
Answer the question:
«What are the ways of supporting friends?»
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  • As a matter of fact women’s way of providing a support is generally verbal and more emotional than men’s.
  • It is clear from the text that when we want to provide friends with more support we should listen to them more attentively.
  • According to the text being able to forgive our friends and treat them without prejudice also means supporting them.
  • The author puts forward the idea that despite their race men and women can utilize various ways to show support for their friends.
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Вопрос задал(а): Анонимный пользователь, 13 Ноябрь 2020 в 17:30
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